The 3 People Who Quietly Shape Your Becoming
- Abiola Onalaja
- 12 hours ago
- 1 min read

Let’s be honest, no one truly thrives alone. Yes, hard work, skill and discipline matters. But behind every person who rises, there are always voices, the ones that shape, challenge, and stretch you.
In my own journey, I have come to realize that every purposeful journey is touched by three kinds of people:
1. The Mirror
They don’t tell you who you are, they remind you. They reflect the version of you that’s been waiting to emerge.
→ The Mirror helps you see differently.
2. The Mover
They won’t let you stay comfortable in “almost.” They challenge your limits and push you into progress — not to punish, but to propel.
→ The Mover helps you act differently.
3. The Mentor
They’ve walked the road ahead and lend you their faith when yours feels small. Their wisdom becomes your compass through uncertain seasons.
→ The Mentor helps you live differently.
There’s more to this reflection, a short video you’ll want to hear. It’s shared on our social media platforms (Instagram & LinkedIn). Watch them and let it stir something new in you to get yourself:
✨ A Mentor who would be reflecting you,
✨ A Mover who would be moving you,
✨ A Mentor who would be mentoring you
And maybe, it’s time to be one for someone else.
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